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Valerie Harper.

Valerie Kathryn Harper

Valerie Harper — Actor
Born Suffern, United States
Died Los Angeles, United States
Citizenship United States
Would Be 87 yr If Living

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TL;DR

Valerie Harper won four Primetime Emmy Awards for her portrayals of Rhoda Morgenstern on The Mary Tyler Moore Show and its spinoff Rhoda, and also earned two Golden Globes. Her career spanned stage, television, and film, including features like Freebie and the Bean and Chapter Two. Diagnosed with terminal brain cancer in 2013, she lived over six more years, passing away in 2019 shortly after her 80th birthday.

Identity & family.

KIN · 2

Names, aliases, and relatives of Valerie Harper — birth name, kin, and personal ties.

Birth Name Valerie Kathryn Harper
Nicknames Val
Spouses
Tony Cacciotti Richard Schaal

At a glance.

STATS

Valerie Harper by the numbers — life, work, and family.

80 Years lived
85 Film credits
8 Awards
2 Marriages

Who was Valerie Harper?

BIOGRAPHY

Valerie Harper — early life, career, personal life, and legacy.

Early life

Born at Good Samaritan Hospital in Suffern, New York on August 22, 1939, Valerie Kathryn Harper grew up in a family of English, Irish, Scottish, Welsh, and French descent. Her mother Iva Mildred and father Howard Donald Harper supported her early interest in dance, leading her to join the corps de ballet at Radio City Music Hall. After attending Lincoln High School, she studied at Hunter College and The New School before moving into acting through regional theatre and the Second City comedy troupe.

Career

Valerie Harper first gained national attention as Rhoda Morgenstern on The Mary Tyler Moore Show in 1970, a role that earned her three Emmy Awards for Outstanding Supporting Actress in a Comedy Series. In 1974 she reprised the character in the spin-off Rhoda, winning an Emmy for Outstanding Lead Actress and a Golden Globe. The 1974 Rhoda wedding episode set a ratings record. She branched into film with roles in Freebie and the Bean 1974, Chapter Two 1979, and Blame It on Rio 1984, and starred in television movies such as Farrell for the People 1982 on NBC and Don’t Go to Sleep 1982 on ABC. Later she voiced multiple characters on The Simpsons and had guest roles on American Dad!.

Personal life

Valerie Harper married actor Richard Schaal in 1964; the couple collaborated as writers on an episode of Love, American Style before divorcing in 1978. She later married Tony Cacciotti in 1987, and they remained together until her death. They had one daughter, Cristina Cacciotti, born in 1983. Harper was close friends with actress Michele Lee and had earlier roomed with Arlene Golonka. She dated Peter Horton in the late 1970s. Diagnosed with terminal brain cancer in March 2013, she defied the prognosis, living more than six years and celebrating her 80th birthday eight days before her passing.

Legacy

Valerie Harper remains the only woman in television history to win an Emmy for Outstanding Supporting Actress in a Comedy Series for a character on The Mary Tyler Moore Show and later win Outstanding Lead Actress in a Comedy Series for that same character on the spin-off Rhoda. She was named Hasty Pudding Woman of the Year at Harvard in 1975 and received the Jane Fonda Humanitarian Award for her advocacy. Her Rhoda wedding episode remains a landmark TV moment. She is interred at Hollywood Forever Cemetery in Los Angeles, near the graves of Mickey Rooney and Chris Cornell. Harper is best remembered as Rhoda Morgenstern, the wisecracking, relatable character who brought warmth and humour to American television.

Filmography.

FILMS · 85

The complete filmography of Valerie Harper — every film, TV show, and documentary credit, ranked by popularity.

  1. TV Poster for The Simpsons

    The Simpsons

  2. TV Poster for American Dad!

    American Dad!

  3. TV Poster for Columbo

    Columbo

  4. TV Poster for The Tonight Show Starring Johnny Carson

    The Tonight Show Starring Johnny Carson

  5. TV Poster for Sex and the City

    Sex and the City

  6. TV Poster for 2 Broke Girls

    2 Broke Girls

  7. TV Poster for NOVA

    NOVA

  8. TV Poster for Golden Globe Awards

    Golden Globe Awards

  9. TV Poster for Melrose Place

    Melrose Place

  10. TV Poster for Dancing with the Stars

    Dancing with the Stars

  11. TV Poster for That '70S Show

    That '70S Show

  12. TV Poster for Love, American Style

    Love, American Style

  13. TV Poster for Touched by an Angel

    Touched by an Angel

  14. TV Poster for The Mary Tyler Moore Show

    The Mary Tyler Moore Show

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Awards & honors.

AWARDS · 5

Every award, honor, and recognition received by Valerie Harper — Grammys, hall-of-fame inductions, civic honors, lifetime achievements.

  • Primetime Emmy Award for Outstanding Lead Actress in a Comedy Series
  • Primetime Emmy Award for Outstanding Supporting Actress in a Comedy Series
  • Golden Globe Award for Best Actress – Television Series Musical or Comedy
  • Hasty Pudding Woman of the Year
  • Jane Fonda Humanitarian Award

Notable quotes.

QUOTES · 6

A wall of memorable lines from Valerie Harper — lyrics, interviews, and off-the-cuff remarks captured over a lifetime.

  • I Used to Get Some Ego Thing Out of Saying I Wasn’t a Star, Just an Actress. Forget It. I’m a Star. I Wanted It. I Worked for It. I Got It.

  • Life Is a Miracle.

  • We’re All Terminal; None of Us Are Getting Out of This Alive.

  • I Have Cancer. It’s in My Brain . . . What Are You Gonna Do About It?

  • I’m a Big Mouth. … I Really Want Americans and All of Us to Be Less Afraid of Death, Know That It’s a Passage. but Don’t Go to the Funeral Before the Day of the Funeral. While You’re Living, Live.

  • My Biggest Regret Was That We Hadn’t Been Given an Opportunity to Write a Final Episode of Rhoda. the Mary Tyler Moore Show Had Wrapped up with a Perfect, Bittersweet and Amusing Finale on Which I Was Thrilled to Be Able to Appear. I Wish That Rhoda Had Been Given the Same Opportunity.

Did you know?

FACTS · 21

Little-known facts about Valerie Harper — origins, oddities, and behind-the-scenes details from a public life.

You wanted to know.

FAQ · 34

Quick answers to the questions readers ask most about Valerie Harper.

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